Repeating the Past

May 6, 2021

(This is a summary of a more comprehensive article in Psychology Today) Why would you repeat the past? Why would you date or marry someone just like the father or mother who was most problematic for you? It seems to happen quite often, even though it would make more sense to look for a partner …

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Couples Loving Each Other

February 8, 2021

Couples Loving Each Other I just finished The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman, an extremely popular self-help book that has inspired couples since 1992. The idea of it is that the key to revitalization and repair of any relationship is to pay attention to how each person likes to be loved. The challenge is that …

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